BIPOCLBGTQIA+ are all second class citizens. It ain't right but it is a fact. Claiming a spot in that acronym or God forbid being associated with more than one of those letters means you will suffer discrimination that will be harmful to your mental health and disadvantage you in your life here in the U.S.A.
Progress, well we actually talk about it now. Progress is so slow as to be glacial. Too many different kinds of discriminations to fight. It is just tiresome for someone like me with great privilege. I would not call me an ally more just not an active enemy. I understand my passivity disadvantages your cause but I am tired of fighting and am going to just enjoy my privilege.