Dads are making it harder for Moms and it is the Mom's fault. Women who procreate with such selfish men are the problem.

I have help raise three other men's children because they were either absent or just not all that helpful. One never paid a cent of child support and could not be trusted to even be around his daughter the others were so poor that what little child support they provided was almost meaningless, and they spent almost no time with their daughters.

I respect both my wives for dumping those losers but they still let them get them pregnant. They chose to be with those men and have their children. It seems that women can't seem to tell who would be a good husband and father until they mature, like say around 30 years old.

It always bothered me when I was in my 20's that women would find me uncool and uninteresting and gravitate to guys I knew were assholes. It is not like I did not get dates or partners but I felt like I as just temporary while they looked for someone cooler or richer. Funny how a 30 year old with two kids might settle for a less cool but steady and helpful partner.

I place a lot of the blame for women's childcare predicaments on the women for their choice in partners. If you want kids so bad that you will have kids with some lazy selfish bro, you can't complain when he does not pull his weight.

Yeah, society has stacked the deck against women finding a helpful partner but if you settle for an unhelpful one, you have no grounds for complaints. If women held men to a higher standard then men would perform better but if you give your time to lazy selfish men, if you reward them you are incentivizing that behavior. Women have had the power to choose their partners for a long time now. Why do women still marry assholes.

TEK