Her eating disorder is related to food safety and the hygiene in restaurants including fast food places is not up to her standards. The practices regarding prepared food in grocery stores bothers her too. The more times food and food ingredients are handled by strangers the less she like it.

Regarding fussy. Doesn't everyone who can afford it, dislike some foods and prefers others? The reason I asked her for suggestions for dinner is that we have been eating the same 10 or 12 meals for almost a decade now and I wanted to change or add to the menu. I have tried some things, some went well others not so well so I wanted her to pick some new meal ideas.

Regarding me suggesting that she figure out her own meals is she already has more than her share for household responsibilities.

TEK