I agree, I think that is my point. Virtue and decency are not gendered, they are social vs. antisocial.

Masculinity and femineity are social as well and either can be good or evil.

Each society determines masculine role and feminine roles. The sexes are different enough that in most cultures the try to be complementary not similar. The tiny community that share the international space station I bet roles are not broken down as masculine or feminine but by competency, training, and a chain of command.