I am adjacent to and interact in close personal contact with toxic men. I have been call a fag or such by these men even when they know I am straight. I don't play the game the way they do and still I succeed. It threatens them so they try to insult me. I am in better physical shape and health then they are. I had a loving wife who deceased and I got remarried while they were getting divorced and had loveless marriages.

One thing you seem to understand is that it is a power trip for them. They really don't want to be loved they want to be obeyed or better yet, feared.

Another related phenomena is for them it is better to steal than accept charity. Being able to steal is power, accepting charity is weakness. This is why the hate social welfare programs. They don't think right thinking people should take charity.

They would probably enjoy raping someone more than having mutually pleasurable sex. The attraction of the dark side is strong, maybe stronger than the force.

TEK