I am completely fine with 4B women being what and who they want to B. I think life is better with the right partner and life is horrible with the wrong one.

I had a few relationships and two marriages. The first marriage was better than the second even if it ended with 5 years of her needing medical attention and then eventually dying of her disease. The second was maybe too much of a rebound, lonely I made a bad choice. My first wife probably would have died earlier and had much worse quality of life if we had not married. I will probably be single until I die. I don't even know where to begin or even if I want to begin to find another partner. Good partners are a great thing but you got to get over it being a 50-50 thing. Sometimes one partner has to contribute more and other times it is the other partner, rarely is it 50-50. If you are keeping score, you are going to lose. It is nice to have someone who can scratch your back, sure you can do it yourself or do without but still, it is nice to have someone scratch your back. I have taken care of someone for so long it feels very strange not having someone I need to do something for.

TEK