I am not going to say not all "White Men" because that I think is implied.
It is those "White Men" they are not all as unhappy or desperate or depressed as you might think. Some of them are just plain evil and are very happy in their hardness, cruelty and dominance. Their head game threats are probably empty and that they can get a reaction from you means they achieved their goal.
You are courageous for sharing your writing publicly. Sadly there is evil that will be attracted to your work. We start early teaching cruelty to our children.
Think about it. At least when I was growing up, if some child pulled a mean prank on one of their fellow children almost all their peers praise the prankster and label the victim a loser. I expect that this is even true for young black girls but maybe not.
When I was in middle school the playground rabble demanded to two weakest boys fight to prove who was the biggest loser. The school's reaction was to punish the two weak boys for fighting.
We are far from establishing a loving nurturing culture. Maybe we are raising better children now, I hope but almost everyone alive was raised in a dog eat dog zero some, you got to fight to survive culture.
I think "White Men" are so bad because their privilege has let them succeed in that dog eat dog culture.
TEK