I am struggling to find the right words to replace your choice "material possession" and it is not easy so I understand your choice of words.

Even your explanation is still kind of off, but I understand, and most others will too.

Material possessions as a display of status or wealth vs. material possessions of a more practical nature.

My tools have a considerable resale value, I could take them to a pawn shop and walk out with thousands of dollars more in my pocket. They are not flashy or ostentatious they are just workman's tools, rugged, practical, useful, needed. Some of them I bought from a pawn shop or thrift store. I am sort of a repairman polymath.

I do own one ostentatious item I won't describe but it cost quite a bit of money. I let some friends play with it sometimes, they greatly enjoy it.

I am not ok with people taking my secondhand things, it would feel like a violation. If asked politely with good rationale, I would probably give them away but take them (steal them) and I think you should be punished.

It is the holidays, and I have been giving a lot of stuff away. If someone is unhappy with a secondhand gift, they should not let me know because they might not get a gift from me again.

Like I said, I am a repairman polymath, what I might gift you could be something I repaired or something I repurposed. I can take trash and make good things or art. I have 7 bicycles. I only bought the first one. I have been gifted two and the other 4 were recovered from the trash and repaired. One is promised to the boy next-door when he gets good enough on his little training bike to move up to it.

I have so much stuff I am looking to find good homes to gift it too. My furniture is mostly too ratty to even give to good will. I sold most of the nice pieces at a consignment shop. Not that I needed the money, but I did need the space and there was nobody I wanted to give it too.

I do get attached to some things, like the furniture my father made or the model airplane I built (that took me many many hours to make from plans I drew) or the drawings and other art done by a friend from my days in college or my uncle or my ex-wife.

I have hundreds of pounds of screws, nuts, bolts, washers, etc. I have miles of wire. I made a greenhouse out of found lumber and clear plastic sheets.

I hate waste, that is part of why I take broken things, fix them and look to find them a good home.

TEK