I don't agree that the traits you listed are masculine nor are the feminine. They are timeless virtues that all good persons should embrace.

Masculine is doing things like being the one who kills intruding bugs or spiders. The one who cleans up the dog crap. The one who takes stuff down and puts stuff up in the high cupboards. The one who lifts and carries the heavy stuff. Being the person who has to go out in the rain to bring the car around. Being the one who sacrifices a limb, if someone has to sacrifice a limb to save the family,

This is why someone who was raised without a Dad at home does not learn these things because they see the Mom doing those things. Single Mom's have to do the masculine things and can't be as feminine.

Being masculine is easing the burdens of those you wish to be feminine so that they can be feminine.

If you want your partner to have nice feminine fingernails then you need to do all the tasks that are likely to break fingernails.

Don't confuse being masculine with patriarchy. Just because masculine guys take on the shitty jobs does not mean they are the boss but there is an expected compensation of feminine charm. If you enable a feminine partner they should sometimes pamper you in a feminine way. Maybe bring you a cold beverage and wipe your sweaty brow.

TEK