I hate bad behavior. I am not a feminist, but I hate male chauvinists or just chauvinist in general. I do judge. I judge people by what they do and who they support or associate with. Patriarch or Matriarch either implies a dictator or supreme ruler. I more favor a democracy and consensus. I am unhappy with my sexist male associates, but they are not "all men." Your gender does not make you right or wrong. Some women, like many who have faced discrimination, have a chip on their shoulder. You can be on the right side of an argument and still be pretty much wrong.

TEK