Kind of comes after, what kind of family do you want. I never wanted kids. I think a lot of young men and maybe women, don't want to have kids. I wanted a family just not that kind of family. Would it be alright with you if your boys did not want to have kids. The is no shortage of people having kids and we already have too many people and too many kids without the proper kind of family. It takes a village. My brother did not have kids, my sister had one, I had none, we all had step kids from our partners previous marriages.

TEK