Stop trying to win. Stop having winners and losers. Achieve not win. Set goals and work towards them. Achieving your goals doesn't mean someone else has to lose. Yes, obstacles ahead. Prepare. While you are achieving your goals bring someone else along and help them to achieve theirs as well. What is it you really want? What are your goals? Are you trying to save the world? Be real or be miserable. If your goal is not to be happy, you are at best neurotic and possibly psycho. Think about what it will take to be happy. Does your happiness align with virtuousness? If you can't achieve happiness while being virtuosos, then you got some soul searching to do.

TEK