Yes, the women are to blame for their circumstances. Aren't we responsible for our choices?

Don't get me wrong, I think the men who have children and don't take care of them are worse but women who complain that the fathers of their children don't do enough.

I have no respect for those kind of men and like the abusive men I work with, I let them know how I feel.

My point is the women who chose to have relationships and children with selfish men don't seem to understand that they made the choice of who is the father of their children, they chose poorly and that is why there are in the position they are. The point of courtship is to learn about your potential partners. If you intend to have children, maybe the most important thing you should be learning is what kind of husband and father your potential partner will be.

I admit this is a little bit of sour grapes on my part and I was and am an excellent husband and father who was rejected by many women because I was not cool or not rich enough. Women do not not seem to prioritize parenting and husbandly skills when choosing partners.

TEK